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Peacemaker or Peacebreaker?



Blessed are the peacemakers, for they shall be called sons of God. 

Matthew 5:9


There was no way to anticipate what I would learn when I began to study the Beatitudes. The more I learned about these insightful teachings filled with wisdom from the Father, the more I became aware of what I lacked.


There are days, especially the tough ones, when the idea of being a peacemaker seems distant. Sometimes it feels impossible, and making peace is not always the first thing on my mind. A piece of my mind would be more accurate. But in those moments, when life raises its ugly head, and I walk into conflict at home, at work, and yes, even in the church, I struggle and even grapple with resolve. Sometimes I resort to various depictions of a peacemaker, though I don't recommend them.


The Ostrich, Bob, and the Lamb


I don't buy these methods for peacemaking, well, maybe I have from time to time, but I don't suggest them. Some equate a peacemaker with the characteristics of an ostrich. You may have seen this type. One who allegedly buries his head in the sand to avoid conflict. They prefer to keep their heads in the grit rather than face potential conflict. Others see a peacemaker as someone better known as a "Yes, sirree, Bob" kind of creature. This is the one who says yes to absolutely everything. Well, maybe not everything, but someone who nods their head up and down in an agreeing motion so many times that they may have permanently rattled their brain to gain the approval of others or avoid differing opinions. Then there's the sacrificial lamb. The one who will concede to suffer anything for the sake of peace, and strangely seems to like being taken advantage of, and wears such a badge with pride.

I'm not sure what you are thinking, but I am guilty of all three at some points in my life, even though none of them readily appeal to me, and I always regret taking such a stance.


Whether it is avoidance, overtly constant agreement, or inviting others to step on, I mean step in and take advantage of them, none of them fit the definition of a peacemaker.


Interestingly enough, Jesus did not mention these misguided beliefs - held as truths by some about what it means to be a peacemaker. Instead, He taught His disciples a straightforward lesson about how to be a peacemaker, including what you know and what you do! Jesus said peacemakers are Sons of God who bear a redeemed nature and striking resemblance to the Savior, the Chief Peacemaker. He loved those who loved Him and those who hated him. He served his friends and also his enemies. Jesus died for those who would believe and those who wouldn't even think of surrendering their lives to Him. Jesus came to earth to make way for peace between God and Man and also between men. Jesus was and still is the ultimate promoter of peace-a healer, a restorer, and a reconciler. Prayers marked his desperate moments in the Garden of Gethsemane (Matthew Chapters 26-27) and on the Cross for peace and reconciliation through the ministry he completed (John 19:30).


As followers of Christ, our responsibility is to be lasting peacemakers —every day in the ordinary routines of daily living. We are called to navigate conflicts without being avoidant, excessively agreeable or self-focused. It is then that we can begin to experience and lead others to have a genuine spirit of reconciliation.


People who walk with restored hearts have been transformed and healed by the love and forgiveness of God through His Son, Jesus Christ, and have access to the Father through His sacrifice on the Cross. With the gift of eternal life given to us, we can no longer settle for the idea that the ostrich, the agreeable Bob, or even a poser of the sacrificial lamb (Jesus is the sacrificial lamb) are paths we choose as peace makers. Because of the gift of peace with God given to us through Christ's sacrifice, we are called to make a way to peace for those who cross our paths each day.


Peace with God

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7


Peace with Others  

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful. Colossians 3:15

                                                 

Finally, brothers and sisters, rejoice! Strive for full restoration, encourage one another, be of one mind, live in peace. And the God of love and peace will be with you. 2 Corinthians 13:11


Peace with Yourself Through Christ

I have said these things to you, that in me you may have peace. In the world, you will have tribulation. But take heart; I have overcome the world. John 16:33


Blessed are the Peacemakers...

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